爱情之道

爱情之道

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，

总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，

你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，

不论做什么事情，

只要能一起，就是好的，

但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，

你开始发现了对方的缺点，

於是问题一个接著一个发生，

你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，

有人说爱情就像在捡石头，

总想捡到一个适合自己的，

但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？

*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?

其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，

或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，

但是记住人是有弹性的，

很多事情是可以改变的，

只要你有心、有勇气，

与其到处去捡未知的石头，

还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨ma？

很多人以为是因为感情淡了，

所以人才会变得懒惰。

错！

其实是人先被惰性征服，

所以感情才会变淡的。

*在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好，

这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！

现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！

*听到了吗？明白了吗？

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。

因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。

如果每个人都

懒得讲话、

懒得倾听、

懒得制造惊喜、

懒得温柔体贴，

那么夫妻或是情人之间，

又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？

所以请记住：

有活力的爱情，

是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，

谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！

* 有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了， 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟， 他的男朋友很不高兴的说：你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了， 我以後再也不会等你了！ 刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了， 她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

*同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上， 此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。你体会到了吗？

*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！

爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时， 很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！

懂了吗？

当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。

那并不代表你会选择他。

*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。

但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，

你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。

可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。

假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？

其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。

或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，

但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？

所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！

*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。

如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来， 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住，

喝酒不要超过六分醉，

吃饭不要超过七分饱，

爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？

我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：

爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；

要道歉，也要道谢；

要认错，也要改错；

要体贴，也要体谅；

是接受，而不是忍受；

是宽容，而不是纵容；

是支持，而不是支配；

是慰问，而不是质问；

是倾诉，而不是控诉；

是难忘，而不是遗忘；

是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；

是为对方默默祈求，

而不是向对方诸多要求；

可以浪漫，但不要浪费；

可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

Got this from my friend's blog , found it very meaningful and suits me perfectly.
Sharing it here with all of you out there.
Sorry those who don't understand mandarin.

Don't ever take Russian flights.

Aeroflot is the world most "suckiest" airlines.

Well, why i said so? Here's the list of reasons.

1) They would not confirm the ticket price till the very last minute and raise the price like freaking high so that you have no choice but to take their flight.
2)They would 1st promise you that you'll have 30 kg of baggage allowance and changes to suit their mood.
3)The entire entertainment set in the whole aircraft was spoilt. So what you can do for a freaking 10 hours? The answer is sleep.
4) The seats are so tight which you would have to bent and squat for 10 hours.
5) They serve tomato juice onboard. Imagine... tomato juice it's just like drinking tomato sauce for your information.
6) There are hell alot of russians onboard which means that they stinks the entire aircraft with damm shit smelly russian smell
7) The air stewardess are ugly , old and fat which let me thinks of pork chop.
8) The air stewardess are rude
9) The calling button on your seat has no use at all.
10) The bread onboard is even harder than stone which you can even throw on someone you dislikes. The victim may faint
11) The toilet is always occupied.

And here's the main point.

You'll get strangle in the so called MOSCOW INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT just because they can't find your luggage while transiting, and will inform you that your luggage has already arrived on the destination TOGETHER WITH THE PLANE YOU SUPPOSED TO BOARD.
and the most frustrating part is the even blamed you and accused you saying that it is your own mistake because you didn't check in in time and the boarding gate is now closed.

As a compensation they give you 11 euro to have lunch in some cafe which looks more like a canteen to me.The food is so freaking expensive and all you can afford is a few pieces of chicken wings and a potato chips. At the end, you have to use credit card to buy a bottle of water just because you are so freaking thirsty and you don't have their local currency.

And just because of their mistake, they downgrade you to a AIRASIA like plane from MOSCOW to SIMFEROPOL while the airfare you are paying is a full basis plane which cost me around RM 3000.

The condition of the plane, need I say more? It is terrible, horrible and vegetable. Oh yea, forget to tell you, you'll have sweets as an appetizer and some uncooked fish on board so that when you touch down at simferopol, they'll make sure the first thing you do is to search for the toilet.

Well, as a conclusion, don't ever take Russian or Ukraine airlines because russians and ukrainians are of the same species, they'll never learn and they'll never grow.

Oh yea, just in case AEROFLOT you want to sue me for a post like that, go ahead, because if you don't I am gonna sue you !!!

Another HK update, hopefully it's the last one.

More pictures to share... sit back and enjoy.

Proudly present you the HK famous 波箩油
Out of expectation, it's just bread and butter. Nothing much.
In a super big shopping mall.In hk , everywhere you go, you'll just see shops and homosapiens.
HK night city view.
The next day, we made a trip to 大峪山
You know in HK movies, place where they go pray and stuff.
Main transport there is cable car, unless you don't mind walking all over the moutains.

You'll have to climb up the stairs. Long long way to go.
Resting half way through
Finally on the peak.looks at the scenary, so claming and nice.
Trying to be playful.
This is HK mango tau fu fa. it's delicious,
but i still think that mango doesn't goes with tau fu fa
This is the ever famous tong shui.dunno wat's tat but it taste nice.
This is another temple.
We went to some peaceful path.
The next day, bird nest egg tart for breakfast.
See the pau.

Conclusion: Love this trip, will be back when i am rich...hahahahaa... Gucci i am coming. but the most important part of this trip is not about HK, it's about something else... those who understand will understand this eventually.

More Hk update.

Hope that you guys out there are not bored about my Hk trip yet as there are still so much to tell.
Again, photos do the talking.

At the main entrance of ocean park

I went on some space ship ferris wheel something without knowing...It is sort of roller coaster. Gosh, I never even think that i have the guts to sit on this kinda things.
The whole park is linked up with this long long escalator.
This ice cream thingy is actually ice plus lime. It cost me RM 15
ocean park, sure there is animal show.
Exit via cable car.
Kung fu panda exhibition
Trying out some martial arts.
Easy job to use chopstick to grab a pau.
I have a whole bowl of it.
This is the papa mee stall.
Training room
The tiger
The snake.Sorry lahz. I forgot their name
The punching bag
Panda.so cute.
Another view of the park. It's so big.
Hot air balloon, sad because of the weather, it does not operate.
On my way to meet the pandas.
Causeway bay night view.
In a famous 双皮奶 shop. Delicious.
See the texture, so smooth and it melts the second it enters your oral cavity.

That's all for now, more HK update soon. Hope you are not bored about it.

Hk Part 2.

This is my long lost post of HK part 2. It's all about the pictures so lay back and enjoy.

This is where I stayed during my trip. The ever famous Tsim Tsa Tsui.

Tram up to The Peak. Damm steep ok.

On top of The Peak. The scenery is speechless. Definitely worth the visit.

See the sky scrapers behind me? Magnificent view of HK.

Madame Tussade in HK. Here you get to do all kinds of stuff.

Michelle Yeoh. Don't be jealous guys.

you can even get to play the piano ..

Or sing on stage live with Aoron Kwok.
Or peace with Janice..
Sometimes you can even get to do this to Ayumi Hamasaki.
Get to hug Brat Pitt.
Speech with Clinton and Bush.
Be part of a picture.
To teach Albert Einstein quatum physics
To hug Andy Lau
To ride on a bike behind some handsome guy
To golf with Tiger Woods
To be obese once in a time
To laze with Beatles.
To be with Elvis
To sing with Twins.

There is too much to do in Madame Tussade. Gosh, I sound like some advertisement promoting HK. But, it's fun inside.
Cute pig. Have you ever seen it's cartoon before? You'll enjoy it.
It's time for Lunch. We ate in MTR station, this is the famous 车仔面
Heading off to Ocean Park.